The “E-Report”: Cops Pay Chris Brown Welfare Check Visit [AUDIO]

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Law enforcement sources tell TMZ … someone called LAPD saying they were scared and concerned for Chris’ well-being. Friday, he posted his San Fernando Valley address on IG — instantly giving not only Offset but his more than 50 million followers, a road map to him. (SOURCE)

 

Sheck-Wes-press-photo-2018-cr_Cian-Moore-billboard-1548Rapper Sheck Wes Denies Abuse Claims Made By Ex-Girlfriend Justine Skye

Justine Skye — a singer, actress and model — put Sheck on blast, calling him pathetic and claiming he put his hands on her in the past. She said there was an instance when she was “taking a walk with my friends and my man and Sheck Wes (my abuser) and his friends decide to STALK US and attack my friends.. two cars full of n****s while he sat in the car like a bitch.” (SOURCE)

 

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Rapper NBA Youngboy Arrested For Marijuana Possession & Assault

NBA Youngboy just got busted in Atlanta, and he was set to appear in court earlier Tuesday. Law enforcement sources tell us the Louisiana-born MC is currently locked up at the Atlanta City Detention Center, where he’s been booked for three misdemeanors: possession of weed (less than an ounce), use of fighting words and physical obstruction with another. (SOURCE)

 

USATSI_11600238_168385083_lowresSteelers WR, Antonio Brown Found Guilty In Wreckless Driving Case

Steelers wide receiver Antonio Brown was found guilty of reckless driving after failing to show up for his court proceeding Tuesday, according to the county magistrate’s office.

Police cited Brown Nov. 8 for allegedly driving a black Porsche more than 100 miles per hour through Ross Township, Pennsylvania. Officers were looking for a possible suspect from a bank robbery when they located Brown. (SOURCE)

 

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E Report w/ Ki Ki Brown: Grammys, Elevator Fights, and Stolen News Trucks [AUDIO]

Pop singer, Ariana Grande cried FOUL and “Trash” via Twitter (now deleted) when her ex-boyfriend, the late Mac Miller wasn’t awarded Rap Album of the year at the 2019 Grammys. Grande wasn’t alone in her feelings but felt the Grammy folks didn’t treat his legacy with the respect she (and Mac fans) felt he deserved; especially since they flew in his parents. SOURCE

Rapper Bow Wow is the latest celebrity to get caught on video fighting his girlfriend in their Atlanta apartment elevator. Later the couple was arrested by police for disorderly conduct and assault. It’s been quiet since the brawl, but now the conversations continue about how toxic these two are for one another and since the video is out, no tellin what’s going to come out of it. You would think one would learn an important lesson about handling your business (personal) in a public elevator after the Solange/Jay-Z, Ray Rice situation, right? Nope! SOURCE

H.E.R., Beyonce & Jay Z, Childish Gambino, and Cardi B took home Grammys last night! For the 26-year-old Bronx rapper, this is huge because she’s the first female EVER to win Best Rap Album! Click here for more on the 2019 Grammy Awards!

 

It’s being reported R&B singer, R. Kelly and his team is being accused of throwing illegal house parties and stealing news station vehicle keys (not the truck…the keys) I’m assuming to make a point. R. Kelly’s Chicago studio has been shut down by a judge who claims if Kels can’t work regular people hours, then he gets no access. Not sure why someone thought it was funny to steal the keys from a CBS affiliate new station vehicle but it was important enough to make the news! SOURCE

 

 

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Hey Girl Hey Podcast

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Hey Girl Hey hosts (L-R): LaShawn Tipton “The Chatter Chick” Gerri Tipton “The Millennial Chick” Ki Ki Brown “The Radio Chick”

I teamed up with two dynamic ladies (Gerri Tipton “The Millennial Chick” and LaShawn Tipton “The Chatter Chick”) for a podcast where we can gossip about our favorite celebrities, current events and other stuff you talk about to yourselves or to your co-workers.

The podcast is called “Hey Girl Hey” and you can hear it on Urban Media Today (online blog magazine) as well as on Saturday’s at 2 O’clock on Urban Media Today (TuneIn or Live365 live stream).

Past episodes are now available on Soundcloud too! Look for Urban Media Today!

What’s on today’s show:

  • Rapper 21 Savage Captured by ICE
  • Steelers WR, Antonio Brown Baby Mama Drama
  • Liam Neeson Can’t Be A Racist Because…
  • Bow Wow Deserves A Biopic…here’s why
  • Kristoff St. John Y&R Tribute (Does Ger Ger *Millennial Chick* even know him?
  • Hey Girl Spotlight goes to Gladys Knight and Shakyla Hill (Grambling State basketball) 

 

 

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E Report: Cardi Wants All The Cookies [AUDIO]

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Kanye West-Victim of Identity Theft (TMZ)

Sources close to the situation tell TMZ, a guy Ye knew secretly contacted Philipp Plein, who is staging a big New York Fashion Week event this coming Monday. The guy misrepresented himself to Plein as Kanye’s rep and began negotiations for Kanye to perform … at a STEEP price.

Plein apparently fell for it hook, line and sinker, and they made a deal wherein Kanye would supposedly pocket 7 figures and, in return, he would perform at the NYFW show.

It gets worse. We’re told the guy forged Kanye’s name on the contract and then had a $900,000 advance wired to an account … which the guy promptly cleaned out. (SOURCE)

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Hip Hop Stars Grammy No-Show (HipHopDC.com) 

Several prominent Hip Hop artists reportedly decided not to perform at the 2019 Grammy AwardsKendrick LamarDrake and Childish Gambino all turned down offers to perform at the show.

Lamar, Drake, and Gambino are all nominated in some of the biggest categories this year, but they might not even show up to the event. The New York Times reported reps for all three declined to answer if they would be attending. (SOURCE)

 

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Cardi Wants All The Cookies (AllHipHop.com) 

(AllHipHop News) A California mom is hoping Cardi B’s love of cookies will help her daughter’s Girl Scout troop net a small fortune.

The rapper was thrilled when young fan Kiki Paschall’s video version of Cardi’s “Money” was posted on the official Girl Scouts’ Twitter account, and responded with a generous offer. (SOURCE)

 

 

E-Report w/ Ki Ki Brown-Feb 7

FBI Investigating Incoming Snail Mail on Fox “Empire” Set

The FBI is working with folks on the “Empire” set to track down the person who sent Jussie Smollett a hateful, threatening letter just days before the attack, and they’re also on high alert to prevent dangerous mail and other items from making their way to the cast.

Sources on set tell us a private security company was hired by the show and met with FBI agents to establish a protocol for inspecting all incoming mail. We’re told the team wears gloves so the evidence in question is not contaminated.  SOURCE

 

Chris Brown & Migos Rapper Offset Have Way Too Much Time On Their Hands

Chris Brown is going after Offset as their beef over 21 Savage continues to escalate … with CB challenging Offset to a fight, and telling him to suck his d***.

Chris went NUCLEAR after the Migos rapper called him “lame” for posting a meme poking fun at 21 Savage for being from the United Kingdom. SOURCE

 

JAY-Z’s Roc Nation Hires Legal Help for Rapper 21 Savage

The hip-hop mogul calls the arrest and detention of the “Bank Account” rapper “an absolute travesty” … and points out his U Visa application has been pending for years.

Jay says … “In addition to being a successful recording artist, 21 deserves to be reunited with his children immediately.”

Also, even though Savage isn’t a Roc Nation artist, Jay-Z’s company has responded to what it calls a “matter of injustice” by hiring attorney Alex Spiro to assist with his case. SOURCE

 

For ONE NIGHT ONLY, BET’s ‘Being Mary Jane’ is Back! 

Being Mary Jane” has been scheduled to return to the small screen one last time. In October 2017, it was confirmed the BET signature drama would be canceled and receive a 2-hr series finale, slated to air in 2018.

It looks like the network has finally given “Being Mary Jane” fans what they’ve desired. The 2-hr finale is scheduled to air April 16, 2019. Gabrielle Union, who plays Mary Jane Paul, informed her social media followers Tuesday about the return (SOURCE)

Baltimore TV/Radio Personalities SYNC Up for the Return of LipSync 4 Lupus

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Baltimore, MD. January 31, 2018: Local radio and television personalities will set aside their headphones and teleprompters in effort to help bring awareness and raise funds for lupus research.
Lupus is an incurable, inflammatory disease that attacks the body’s tissue and organs, causing unbearable pain and skin rashes; affecting more than 1.5 million people in the United States (www.lupusresearch.org)
The event will be held at Bill Bateman’s Bistro, located on 102 Chartley Drive in Reisterstown, MD Saturday, March 10th from 5P to 10P.
In addition to the lipsync challenge, there will be a silent auction, fun activities, raffle prizes, and autograph signing with former Baltimore Ravens Linebacker (now with the Philadelphia Eagles) Dannel Ellerbe from 6P to 7P.
The event is coordinated and hosted by former Baltimore radio/traffic announcer, Ki Ki Brown. “This event was so big in 2016! We raised $4,000 for lupus research and I know with all the talent signed up for this year’s event, we’ll surpass that amount,” says the radio personality for Pittsburgh station WAMO 100.
Bill Batemans Bistro has agreed to donate 20% of the night’s proceeds to Lupus Research Alliance (www.lupusresearch.org).
Lipsync teams will include various personalities from local Baltimore and DC radio/television stations including WBAL, WMAR, Radio One, TV One, Today’s 101.9, 100.7 The Bay, and WBFF Fox45.
Here is the tentative line up of performers:
TV TEAM: TEAM CAPTAIN: KAREN CAMPBELL-WBAL TV
o Nicki Mayo (TV One)
o Karen Campbell (WBAL)
o Michelle Richardson (WJLA)
o Cassie Carlisle (WMAR)
o Chardelle Moore (FOX 45 Reporter/Producer)
RADIO TEAM 1: Team Captain: LIL’ BLACK-92Q Jams
o Lil’ Black (92Q Jams)
o Porkchop (92Q Jams)
o DJ Heat (92Q Jams)
o Portia Foxx (WAMO 100-Pittsburgh)
o Tiara LaNiece (DTLR Radio)
o Tony Thornton (Urban One/Total Traffic)
RADIO TEAM 2: Team Captain: JO CAMPBELL-100.7 The Bay
o Stash (WZBA 100.7 The Bay)
o Jo Campbell (WZBA 100.7 The Bay)
o Tashawna Gaines (WBAL Radio)
o Gina Crash (Today’s 101.9)
“Living with lupus has been such a struggle for me,” says Vanessa Payne, lupus survivor, Founder of the Payne Train Lupus Awareness Organization and Co-Coordinator for this event. “I’m so happy we’re bringing awareness to this disease. There are so many people out there like me and we all need a cure. This will definitely help bring us closer to that cure.”
Admission is free, and donations are encouraged.
Please contact Ki Ki Brown or Vanessa Payne for further information.
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Pittsburgh Media Chicks Continue the #MeToo and #TimesUp Discussion For Point Park University Students

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Local Media Chicks Host #UsToo Panel Discussion

Continuing the Discussion of the #MeToo and #TimesUp Movement and How It Effects Local Women in the Media

Pittsburgh, PA, January 30, 2018– The Media Chicks Network will host a closed panel discussion based on the recent events effecting women in the local media following the #MeToo and #Times Up movement.

“The issues of inappropriate sexual misconduct, abuse, assault in addition to body shaming, unfair/unequal pay and gender discrimination are unacceptable and it’s time to speak out in hopes that our initiatives will help others to be thoroughly prepared for a future in the media”, LaKeisha “Ki Ki” Brown, veteran radio personality and Founder of the Media Chicks Network.

The panel discussion will host women in television, radio, print and production areas of the media and will be open to the student body of Point Park University at the Center for Media Innovation in Downtown, Pittsburgh. The time will be 5PM.

This event is co-sponsored by the Center for Media Innovation, Pittsburgh Black Media Federation, PA Women’s Press Association, International Association of Business Communicators, and Public Relations Society of America.

MODERATED BY: Ki Ki Brown, Radio Personality and Founder of the Media Chicks Network

**Awaiting more confirmations from local TV/Radio personalities**

Media Chicks Network is a Facebook group with over 200 members of women who serve in the media from Washington, DC, Virginia, Maryland, Houston and Pennsylvania. The group will host various events that range from panel discussions, self-defense classes, brunches, and fun activities to increase bonding opportunities for women in the media.

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Finding Randi: An Inspiring Story About Adoption and Reflection

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[This story was originally posted on UrbanMediaToday.com]

 

This isn’t an entertainment report but more of an inspiring moment for those who have experienced the adoption process.

I met this young lady by the name of Randi James at a dinner party of a mutual church friend. I had never seen anyone like her before. Her spirit was “welcoming” and innocent. Her smile is vibrant and her skin is flawless. I’m not into chicks (insert Seinfeld line: “not that there’s anything wrong with it“) but this young lady is beautiful.

We started following one another on Facebook and we shared a few motivating text messages. You know the kind: bible verse there, a funny meme here, “have a blessed day” type of thing. You know, what good girlfriends do!

One day, I was swiping through my Facebook timeline and found the most inspiring story shared by Randi about her experience of being adopted.

Randi shared her story about how she found her birth mother and family; detail by detail. From the airport to the “awkward” family dinner.

Her story did something to my heart. It warmed up a bit. I felt compassion and empathy for her; not that she needed it. Randi has the most positive and confident personality I know at her age (early to mid 30s). GOD is doing some amazing things in her life!

Recently, my brother found my father, brother and myself through Ancestry.com! I wasn’t sure how to take this! Who was this person? Why am I not excited, but happy and weird about all this?

The first person I reached out to was Randi. Even in her instant messages she was calm, excited, happy, and concerned about my new life change. GOD put her through this process not only to help her but to help me!

She advised me to take my time, let it develop into what it was purposed to be, and don’t try to figure it out. She was right!

Randi’s experience was one I really wanted to share with the world because now I know there are people in the world who are going through what she went through (and still going through).

Because of our work schedule (she works in education), it was hard to sit down with her and interview her as I would a celebrity. So I sent her a few questions and asked her to answer them as open and honest as she could. She did!

Read it here:

Did you always know you were adopted? If so, when did your adopted parents tell you? My mother told me when I was around 5. I came home from school and it was the day a parent came to talk about their job. The mother worked with babies and told us that we came from our mommy’s tummies and I came home with this wealth of knowledge as though I knew what the deal was and told my mom that I came from her tummy… she said I didn’t that I came from her heart.

How did you take the news? I took it hard. My mommy explains it that I took it hard and was confused… of course! I didn’t know what was what! Were you always curious about who your birth parents were? Yes I was curious, I more so wanted to know if I looked like them. It was important to me that I looked like someone that I fit in. I just wanted to know what I was.

What was growing up with your adopted parents like? It was wonderful. I had so much love. I would forget I was adopted most of the time. My mother sacrificed a lot for me and both my parents always made sure I had what I needed and wanted. Their love was always unconditional. Share the good and not-so-good times. Regular experience as much as a child can have. Good days and days when I was bad and I got into trouble.

When did you first know that you wanted to find your birth parents? When I was in college. I felt like I was emotionally going through a lot and wanted to make sure it wasn’t a mental illness. I felt like I wanted to know medically what was going on with me or what ran in my genes.

L to R: Larissa Lane, Ki Ki Brown, Randi James

What was the process like trying to find them? (contacting an agency, finding a family friend, social media…) It was pretty simple… my mom had known the name of the adoption agency she got me from and they were still up and running so my files were still there. I had to fill out some papers, send them in and within about 3 to 4 months… maybe longer I received the information about my birth mother. It included her name an address (was very old from 1994 I think) and all her medical records and some minor information about my birth father.

So after you hung up the phone with your birth mother (or person connecting you to your birth parents and family), what did you feel? After she responded to my FB message confirming that she was indeed my mother… well… when I found out, I was at work. I felt like my whole life flashed before my eyes. I couldn’t think, I couldn’t comprehend that this moment was real. That this woman who was a mystery to me was now nonfiction. She was real. And she wanted to talk to me!?!?! It was too much. I sped home and cried and cried and put on worship music and cried and then wrote a poem. Lol and then cried and then starred at the wall and then sat and then pulled myself together a bit to make the phone call… took me about 10 hours. The next day I cried some more.

How did your adopted parents take all this? Were they happy for you? Were they not so accepting? They were very happy for me… apprehensive, a little nervous because they want me to be safe, they didn’t want my heart to be hurt. But they were happy because I was happy and excited because I was excited, and in shock and a little sad. Sad because there was a new person a potentially a new family that has surfaced that would share me. I wasn’t only theirs now. I felt the same way. Also, my birth family has been so accepting of my mom and dad and want to know more of my family. They have been so kind and respectful and mindful of my parents and their feelings in all of this. I like that very much. Because to love me, know me, want me is to love, know and want my family…the ones who raised me and took care of me. I’m a packaged deal! And my birth family has been great with that.

Randi and birth mother

What was it about finding your birth parents/family so important to you? Knowing more of my identity. I am coming into completion of my natural self. Still so much to learn and grow as a person. But know part of where I come from biologically and that sheds light on to so many things spiritually as well.

Describe the first person you met when traveling to California to meet your family. My birth mother. Met her at a Starbucks with my mom.

What was it like meeting your birth mother for the first time? And your birth father? No birth father…yet. It was almost natural but unnatural to see my birth mother face to face. It was kinda like oh this is me, but not really, but kinda? It was awkward, but nice. A lot of starring involved.

What did you discover about yourself that you never knew before? That the love I am is not only nurture but nature. My mom and dad who adopted me love me so much, so so much, but my birth family are also so very loving. I see now I am love because it is something that both surrounded me and was in me.

Will you stay connected with your birth family? Most definitely. As much as they’d have me. I want it to grow and be whatever God wants it to be. I’m open, but I hope we grow closer. I want it to be genuine on my part and real. I don’t want to just be like, “oh we’re family because we have the same blood”, but because we have the same heart and goal for the relationship.

Now that you’re back home, how does your adopted family feel about all this? My mother and father are still in awe, happy that it all went well and are happy to get to know my birth family. They are following my lead, whatever I want to happen they are supporting me.

Were you able to ask all the questions you needed to? I honestly didn’t have many questions to ask. I just wanted to know where I came from, why she gave me up, and test the waters to see if there was a possibility of having a relationship of some kind. My birth mother really was very open so there wasn’t much for me to ask. She shared it all willingly. I appreciate her openness. How do you feel about that? I feel good. I know there is still a lot to learn about my birth mother and siblings and the rest of my family so I’m happy to explore that.

How are you feeling TODAY? Today I’m good… We’ll see what the future holds. I feel very at peace with everything. I don’t feel angry, I’m happy but not super ecstatic, I’m in awe with what God has done but not like shocked. It’s kind of hard to explain, but I don’t feel extreme feelings of anything. I’m just kind of going with the flow. So today is good we’ll see what tomorrow will bring.

I’m not sure if you had a companion with you on your visit, but were you able to talk to anyone about all this before, during and after your visit? (outside of GOD and Facebook) Going to visit my birth mother and family, my mom came with me to first meet my birth mother in person and then my mom and dad came with me to meet my birth family. That made me very very happy having them both there. Because they are who I am also, and not having them there would nt have been as fulfilling.

L to R: Randi’s birth mother & grandmother, Randi and adopted mother

What was that like? (scary, exciting, numb…) I kind of felt like the Dr. Sues book “Are You My Mother?” thankfully I didn’t have to ask around to different women asking if they were my mother, but the idea of asking this woman who I perceived to be my mother, if she was my mother, was just weird. Lol I was nervous and felt very vulnerable. I didn’t know how she would respond and if she would want to know me or have me in her life. I didn’t know if the rest of her family new about me. I didn’t know what to think, if I even wanted to know here, if I even wanted a relationship with her. I think just in my heart I wanted to be known. And I wanted to know. And so now I do! As far as having people to talk to about everything,  I had friends that I shared what I was doing. My friend I talked about earlier who is also adopted, I talked with her the day that I decided to reach out to my birth mother and we talked about it and she encouraged me to look again. My other friend who is my prayer partner, I talked to her about it too she knew my story and encouraged me  as well along with some other group of very close friends and my mom of course!

What advice can you give to someone who is going through this process? Don’t try to figure it all out at once. Maybe before looking for your birth family spend time praying and asking God to give you discernment and strength. Don’t force yourself to decide if you want a relationship with them or not, just decide to be open to all possibilities without expecting anything except for God to be with you the whole time.

Does this open up a new appreciation for those parents who have decided to give their children up for adoption and those who adopt? This experience definitely helped me to see both perspectives more clearly and to have a bigger heart for the mother who would give up her child. And an appreciation for those mothers as well… because I could easily not be here at all. So praise God she decided to relinquish me into the arms of a mother who was ready and able to love on me. And to the mothers and fathers that adopt, what a selfless sacrificial love you have and a servants heart. I respect people who can and want to raise someone else’s child. May you be blessed! Also every situation is so different, every story is so unique that it’s hard to know what to say or do in any particular situation, but if anything all of this has helped me to see that we are all broken in need of love and that love inside us has the capacity to grow beyond what we could even imagine. Does this make you want to advocate for children who are still looking for a family? Yes!

Would you ever consider adopting a child, knowing what you’ve gone through? (I answered this in the second part of the last question but I’ll put it here! Lol) Yes! I plan on adopting/fostering children in the future. I’d also like to have children naturally as well. There’s enough love in me for everyone. 

Thank you Randi for sharing your story! If you are looking for your birth parents or want more information about adoption, click here.

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OMG! I’ve Become “That Chick”!

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So I’m realizing that I’m getting older and becoming that chick that even I used to talk about back in the day while pre-gaming with my girlfriends before we headed to the club. I can’t remember who she was but she was there. You know, the chick with the kids or the one without money or the one with the new man and had NO TIME for her girls. Yup! That’s me!

I was invited out last night and I became that chick that said “No girl! I’m tired. My body is aching and I just want to stay home and rest.” Then later I see all the fun pictures on social media; pissed I missed out! Yeah, I’m that chick. I can see that now.

But why was she (now me) so bad? What’s wrong with being home? You can eat all you want, drink all you want and do it all without a bra, in your favorite ripped up tank top and highwater sweatpants! Throw in a bottle of Pino and BAM! You gotta party! (high five….no?)

I’ve become that chick that would rather stay at home in that same attire, drinking my Pino (in a coffee cup though) and watching Dateline or First48 or something!

Here’s my reason: I work SEVEN DAYS A WEEK. I juggle a lot of duties as a CEO of my own company, programmer for an online radio station, part time radio personality, blogger, co-coordinator for two Facebook groups, mother, girlfriend, and dog owner. By the time I’m finished with my day (which starts at 4AM, by the way) all I want to do is crawl (literally) into my bed and go to sleep!

Who has the energy to race home, take a shower, paint your face, figure out what to wear (in which you’ll just throw on some jeans, tee shirt and cute boots) text your girls to ask “where are you?” and later find out they’re not ready and you have to wait another 30 minutes until you get that “let’s go” text. HASHTAG “Been there done that”!

I’m happy to say I’m not a spring chicken and I’m also not an “old biddie”. I enjoy nights out with friends; just in different settings. I love dinner parties (like the ones you see on TV) and I love to go out and get coffee after getting my nails done. I can do that with you or without you. I like sitting in my bed watching Sex in the City movies (I only like the first one) or catching up on The Mindy Project on HULU. What’s wrong with that?

So here I am, blogging about becoming that chick at 5:30 in the morning, sitting in my highwater sweats, hair bonnet, drinking an oversized cup of coffee and listening to my dog lick himself! Yup! That’s my life!

I’m safe, warm, not alone and I don’t have a hangover! Yeah, I could break habit and take my fun outdoors. Who couldn’t enjoy a night of long lines, drunk chicks fighting over her man this and his girl that, and sit in my seat all night boppin’ my head to some old school hip hop? I could pay way more than what I think a bottle of beer should cost or the $10 cover for a hole in a wall bar that has the best wings in town AND a jukebox! I could do that! Just not today! Maybe not tonight! I will though. I promise! (I’m saying this to myself)

Wrapping this thing up, it’s not so bad being that chick that just wants to stay at home. I’ve learned not to be that other chick looking down at her. She chooses another way of living and that’s OK. Next time you see her (me), she’ll (I’ll) have lots to talk about (past Dateline episodes), money to spend, and energy to waste!

Call me…no better yet text me…no…inbox me….send me a snap…no tweet me…nevermind! I’ll reach out to you when I’m ready!

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“You’re Here For A Reason”…So I’ve Been Told

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I’ve been hearing that for about a year now from people at church, sorority, friends, family and associates. “You’re here for a reason” has been spoken over me close to 20 times a month. Okay, maybe I’m exaggerating but it’s alot!

It comes right after I say “Ok, why is this happening?” or “why am I here?” or “why me?”. Simple questions right? I thought so.

I link the response to me being where I am to my spiritual relationship. I know GOD makes ZERO mistakes and I know HE also has a plan over my life. I know that HE allows us to make our own decisions and we’re held accountable for them. We are given options and HE knows which options we choose. Why he lets us choose the wrong “door” is one question I hope to ask one day, but for now, I’ll continue to sit here in the peanut gallery, scratching my head and wondering why is why and why ask why and why not why…blah blah blah.

I’m not sure what your “whys” are but here are just a few of mine (don’t laugh):

  • Why can’t I finish what I started?
  • Why can’t I save money?
  • Why doesn’t anyone support my business?
  • Why am I not married yet?
  • Why am I stuck in this job and not where I need to be in my career?
  • What do I really want to do with my life? (i.e. run a non profit, run my marketing business, entertainment reporting on TV, start media chicks network officially, etc.)
  • Why am I in this relationship?
  • Why do I feel so alone?
  • Why is my business not making any money?
  • Why do I keep making the same mistakes?
  • Why am I not so confident in myself?
  • Why don’t I worship enough? Pray enough? Study enough?
  • Why am I so afraid?

Here is what’s been revealed to me:

We are where we are because we haven’t grown into that particular outfit created for that particular moment in our lives. I told someone yesterday that, like in college or high school, in order for us to graduate, we have to study hard (bible), pass our tests, and take all that we’ve learned and learn from them through our experiences. Does that make sense?  *shrugs* I don’t study the bible, but I do TRY HARD to read a few daily scriptures. I make sure I talk to GOD daily (in the car, walking the dog, in the shower or even on the toilet–He knows my heart) Unfortunatley, for me it’s not enough. I work with the social media ministry where I take pictures and post them online to keep the home body members up to date on the Sunday sermon and to make sure our church’s social media sites are current (and poppin)! So when I’m doing that, I’m not connecting with what’s really going on.

As far as my career, I want to continue on in the media but not in radio. I have decided to stop chasing an industry that doesn’t chase me. I want to continue my focus on reaching out to other women in the media (which explains this blog). I want to become a public speaker in hopes of one day presenting a Ted Talks, and I want to run a successful marketing business. Become a mentor. The generic ‘wants” are also on the list: getting married (to my SOUL MATE), travel around the world, become a feature anchor on The Today Show (I know, right?) and I want to have at least $10,000 saved in a savings account (that is one of the most challenging tasks for me).

I want to be successful in my business so that I don’t have to work a regular job. I want to grow in staff and clientele and create a positive reputation in the community that will give me confidence and allow me to take care of my needs as well as my family. Grinding is one step (I’m a pro at that) but when does the breakthrough come? I’ve read stories about 13 year old girls who became multi-million dollar CEO’s because she took her wagon filled chocolate chip cookies to the right hotel lobby and sold it to the right tycoon and BOOM, she was rich! My goal isn’t to be rich…just successful!

Some people close to me told me to reach out to a life coach (done) but does that help? Will they really know what I need? Will they be around me 24/7 like the paparazzi on the Kardashians? And do I want that?

My elder said to me in church service that “God is watching me closely.” What does that mean? I wanted to ask her but I didn’t (referring back to the “why am i so afraid” question).

Sometimes God Speaks By Saying Nothing

I have a dog who keeps me busy and loves me unconditionally. Will this be my relationship that fulfills my life with joy instead of a beautiful man with the body of a Greek God? Don’t get me wrong, I love my boyfriend but for some reason, I feel empty. He loves me (tells me serveral times a day) and he wants to be with me all the time BUT I want more. I have lived alone. I have lived with boyfriends. I can do both; it doesn’t matter to me honestly. Sometimes, I wish I was back to living alone (with my dog) so I can do what I want and not worry about anything. That didn’t work out so well in the past. (refers to the quesion “why can’t I save money?”)

I’m blabbing but I’m dead serious. What am I doing here? I get up at 4AM to walk Beau, schedule music segments for my online radio station (Urban Media Today Radio), I work on content for my clients (Nice 2 Media Marketing), show prep for my radio show (my actual job) and after my shift, I go home to start the next day. THIS IS EVERY DAY!

I used to work out. Lost 20lbs. But life happened…so GOD gave them back (ok, it wasn’t GOD).

Steve Harvey says we should Jump toward the things we love. I get it but when I hear it coming from a successful RICH black man who hosts like 10 television shows, vacations DAILY on some resort while smoking a Cuban cigar hand rolled by some village kid, I find myself not believing in it so much. I trust what he’s saying is true; it worked for him! Unfortunately, stuff in my life is so crazy, I don’t know if the ground I’m landing on will be there when I do jump!

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So to get myself out of this rut (I think that’s how it’s spelled), I have reached out to a few church friends (15-20 years younger than me) asking them to kinda be a guide for me; inviting me to outings and keep me focused on my spiritual goals (they agreed). I reached out to a life coach whom I know from years back and she said she is willing to help me (not for free though). I also talked to a fellow media chick who owns a public speaking coaching business (another investment). The good news is, I made a smart decision to work on getting the answers to the burning question “why am I here”. I have no idea if it will help (yet) but hopefully, I’ll find out before I’m 50 (that gives me 6 years).

I’m on this Diane Lane, Under The Tuscan Sun, Julia Roberts, Eat, Pray Love type ride right now. Both movies (my favorite, by the way) ended on a good note. Maybe mine wil too!

Thanks for letting me get this out! I pray all the best for you and that you find out why you’re here. Share what you’ve done to answer that question. It can be helpful to others, I’m sure.

 

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